What if my child doesn't like to practice?

Many parents want their child to learn an instrument, but are apprehensive about making them practice. Very often music teachers hear the phrase, “I don’t want to force my child to do something they don’t want to do.” The biggest problem with this is that 99.99% of children don’t like to practice all that much. Young children don’t like doing their math homework, but we still make them do it. Kids don’t like to eat their vegetables or brush their teeth but we make them do it. Kids need to be pushed and reminded to practice their musical instrument on a regular basis.

Parenting smart, successful & well-adjusted children takes a tremendous amount of effort and time for parents. So we understand that the thought of adding another thing to the already busy daily schedule can be daunting, but it’s worth it.

Eventually children will take ownership of their own practice. They will learn to be self-motivated and won’t require as much input from parents. This initial investment in your kids will pay dividends down the road. One of the biggest benefits of learning to play a musical instrument is the self-discipline that comes along with regular practicing.

How Music Lessons Develop Grit

If you take a look at our school mantra, you’ll see that “we aspire to foster creativity, confidence, and grit.” Creativity and confidence are no-brainers, but what exactly is grit? Why is it important? And how do music lessons promote it?

When you hear the word “grit”, you might automatically think of professional athletes, or hardened characters out of a Western movie. But having grit means more than just having a tough attitude. In a now-viral TED talk as well as in her resulting book, Angela Duckworth defines grit as “perseverance and passion for long-term goals”. Specifically, she mentions five separate characteristics that make up grit: courage, conscientiousness, perseverance, resilience, and passion. These are all great characteristics on their own, but, according to Duckworth, the combination of all five can mean the difference between failure and success in almost every area of life - she says that grit is a more significant predictor of high achievement than natural talent or even IQ. 

Here at the Academy, we want our students to succeed in every area of life, not just music. That being said, we believe that music lessons are a great way to build grit in kids! Here’s how music lessons can foster each of the five characteristics of grit. 

1. Courage

Learning to play an instrument is no small feat. In addition to learning how the instrument works and developing the physical skills needed to play it, such as finger strength and air support, students essentially need to learn a whole new language in order to be able to read music. Putting yourself out there to learn all of that takes some guts! Kids also learn bravery through music lessons by participating in recitals and other performances. Most adults would agree that standing in front of an audience and playing an instrument is pretty nerve-wracking! Learning to overcome stage fright through musical performances will help kids with other future endeavors, like presentations and public speaking. 

1. Conscientiousness

In her book Grit, Angela Duckworth says that conscientiousness is the trait most closely associated with grit. In this context, to be conscientious means to motivate oneself to work extremely hard, with care and attention to detail, in order to achieve the best results possible. Music lessons teach kids to be conscientious by encouraging them to spend lots of time outside of lessons practicing their instrument. 30 minutes a week isn’t enough to master an instrument - most of the real progress students make comes from the time they spend practicing at home. Music lessons give kids the opportunity to develop a routine of self-motivated practice, and their instructors’ guidance allows them to pay attention to the small details of their pieces that allow them to improve their musicianship. In this way, music lessons teach kids that hard work and attention to detail yields amazing results!

1. Perseverance

One of the best things about learning to play a musical instrument is that there is always more to learn - even professional musicians are constantly improving and learning new skills! However, this also means that the better you become at playing your instrument, the more complex and difficult your new material will be. As kids become more advanced and are presented with increasingly challenging pieces, it can be easy to get discouraged. But their prior experience with progressing in lessons, as well as the example set by their accomplished instructors, will inspire them to persevere through these challenges and to reach even higher goals. Many music instructors even implement some sort of motivational program so that kids have physical rewards of their perseverance - for instance, the Powell Academy of Music offers both the 100 Minute Practice Club and the Level Up program, which gives kids the opportunity to earn prizes and medals for their hard work! 

1. Resilience

As with any human endeavor, some amount of failure is inevitable in a music student’s journey. Even the most accomplished musicians have suffered a bad performance or have failed to master a particularly difficult piece. What separates those who have grit from those who don’t is the ability to recover and keep going, using these experiences as a basis for improvement rather than being discouraged. Music lessons teach kids to do just this by encouraging them to keep trying until they’ve succeeded!

1. Passion

Ludwig van Beethoven himself once said, “To play a wrong note is insignificant; to play without passion is inexcusable.” And, according to her work, it seems that Angela Duckworth would agree - she argues that when it comes to developing grit, passion is just as, and perhaps even more, important than perfection. Luckily, music is something that’s easy to become passionate about! Every student will eventually find some style of music that just “clicks” with them, whether it’s by Mozart, Miles Davis, or Beyonce. Once a student has mastered their instrument to the point where they’re able to find and play the music that they really love, the real magic can start. Even if a student doesn’t continue with music through their whole lives, music lessons will teach them that it doesn’t matter if you get every detail right - as long as you bring passion to whatever it is you’re doing, you can achieve your goals. 

Give us a call today and see for yourself the amazing benefits of music lessons!

Music Lessons As Stress Relief

Stress is an unavoidable fact of modern life. With busy schedules, evolving technologies, and a seemingly constant cycle of negative news, our stress can rise to almost unbearable levels. But there’s a great, fun way to decrease this stress - music lessons! 

That’s right - there’s plentiful evidence that learning to play an instrument can significantly relieve stress. Scientific studies have shown that people who play an instrument have lower stress levels, lower blood pressure, decreased heart rate, and decreased symptoms of anxiety and depression. One such study found that playing the piano reduces levels of cortisol, which is known as the “stress hormone” because it can cause physical symptoms of stress and anxiety. Researchers even found that playing the piano reduced cortisol levels more than other relaxing activities like reading, writing, and art! Another study found that taking guitar lessons can help to reduce symptoms of PTSD and depression. 

There are a few reasons behind this phenomenon. You might have heard the term “mindfulness” from self-help books, yoga instructors, and even Instagram influencers. At its core, mindfulness is simply the practice of staying in the present moment by being aware of and focusing on your physical surroundings as well as your current mental and emotional state. The idea is that extreme focus on the present prevents your mind from rehashing the past and worrying about the future, which of course helps reduce stress. As it turns out, music lessons are a great way to promote mindfulness! When you’re practicing a musical instrument, you need all your mental energy to focus on all the skills you’re learning in your lessons, from reading the music in front of you to moving your fingers in the proper way to producing a great tone. With your mind working overtime to accomplish all these things, there’s not much room for worrying about the future! 

Another great way that music lessons reduce stress is by getting you away from screens. Our modern world provides us with a constant stream of information from our phones, tablets, and televisions, which can cause considerable stress - several studies have linked frequent screen time with anxiety and sleep disorders. Playing an instrument gives you a break from work emails, social media, negative news, and other virtual stressors. 

Another anti-stress benefit of learning music is that it is an inherently social activity. As humans, we crave interaction with other people, and music lessons allow you to work on a new skill while connecting with others, whether it’s other students or just your instructor. Even if you’re teaching yourself, music is a great way to start conversations and meet new people! 

Even with all these benefits, many students are hesitant to start lessons because they’re afraid that they won’t be good at learning an instrument. But the good news is that you don’t have to be a great musician to reap the anti-stress benefits of music lessons! In fact, researchers have found that learning to play an instrument works even better as an anti-stress tool for musicians who play casually and who don’t worry about getting everything right. 

So, if you’ve been feeling more stressed than usual, consider signing up for music lessons! Give us a call today for more information! 

The Benefits of Music Lessons During Quarantine

In this unprecedented and uncertain time, most schools have been able to successfully transition to an online format. Here at Powell Academy of Music, we are thrilled to be able to do the same, and to continue offering our high-quality music education using Zoom! Although our Zoom lessons have been incredibly successful, it’s understandable to have apprehensions about moving to online video lessons. After all, we pride ourselves on our amazing hands-on, face to face lessons with our talented staff. However, there are many important benefits to continuing music lessons during this time, even over video! Below are just a few.

• Structure: We’re used to leading carefully scheduled and organized lives, which have largely been derailed by the COVID-19 crisis. This sudden lack of structure affects not only parents but kids as well, and can cause stress, boredom, and irritability! Keeping a scheduled activity, like a music lesson at the same day and time, from life before quarantine can help provide this much needed structure along with a sense of normality in a very abnormal situation.

• A break for parents: Speaking of stress and irritability, the COVID-19 crisis has left lots of parents wondering what to do with their kids at home 24/7! Regularly scheduled music lessons can provide some relief for overwhelmed parents, even if it’s just for thirty minutes each week.

• Keep up with progress: One of the main reasons we encourage our students not to take long breaks in their lessons – for instance, putting lessons on hold during summer vacation – is that they’re likely to lose a lot of the progress that they’ve made. The truth is that unfortunately we don’t know how long this crisis will last, and by not taking advantage of video lessons, students not only will miss out on learning new skills but also risk losing the skills they’ve worked so hard to develop. Continuing regular lessons via Zoom, as well as maintaining their normal practice regimen, will ensure that by the time our students are able to see their instructors face to face again, they’ll be more than ready to move forward!

• Stress relief: Countless studies have demonstrated that music has a wonderfully relaxing effect on our minds and bodies. During this time of extreme stress and uncertainty, it is more important than ever that we keep music in our lives! So, if you haven’t tried your lessons over Zoom, please consider reaching out to us to get started!

If you are interested in getting started with music lessons via the Zoom app then please call us at 614-572-3640 or email info@powellacademyofmusic.com.

Starting Music Lessons at the Right Age

For children, starting at the right age is a key element to the success of their lessons. Some people will tell you the "sooner the better", but this attitude often backfires and can be a negative. We created the following info-graphic based on guidelines that we have found to be successful in determining how young a child can start taking music lessons.

How to Choose the Right Lesson Length. 30, 45, or 60 Minute Lessons?

A common question we get when registering new students for music lessons is how long, and how frequent, their lessons should be. While each student is unique, here are a few basic guidelines we suggest following!

We always schedule lessons on a once-a-week basis. Some parents who are new to music worry that one lesson a week isn’t enough, but it is usually just the right amount! This is because unlike other activities, such as group sports, a lot of the work that goes into learning music actually takes place at home. Students use the days in between lessons to practice skills and songs their teachers have introduced during lessons, ideally practicing a little bit each day. Your child’s instructor can give you some great tips on effective ways to practice at home to make the most of each weekly lesson!

When starting to learn a new instrument, we usually suggest beginning with 30 minute lessons. Many beginning students are on the younger side, and it can be challenging for some kids to sit still and focus for longer than half an hour. Even older students usually don’t need lessons longer than 30 minutes - again, most of the work of learning music takes place outside of lessons, especially at a beginning level. 

As students grow more advanced, they may want to look at lengthening their lessons, especially if they participate in high-level musical groups or are thinking of pursuing a degree in music. By this point their instructors may be working with them on multiple challenging pieces that can’t all be covered in just 30 minutes. We offer both 45 and 60 minute lessons, both of which are great options for these more advanced students. 

We love working with our families and instructors to find a lesson strategy that best fits each student’s individual needs. If you’re unsure about how long your lessons should be, don’t hesitate to reach out - we would love to help you on your musical journey!

The Benefits of Taking Music Lessons

The Benefits of Taking Music Lessons 

Today’s kids have seemingly endless options for extracurricular activities. Between sports, Scouts, and even just keeping up with homework, it can be hard to imagine throwing private music lessons into the mix! But music lessons have consistently been shown to benefit kids in a multitude of ways. Read on to learn more about why your child should start learning music!

Cognitive Development

Over the last few decades, neuroscientists have published a wealth of research detailing the incredible effects of music on the brain. These studies have demonstrated that learning to play a musical instrument actually changes the brain’s structure, allowing for dramatic improvement in nearly every cognitive area. Music lessons improve kids’ working memory - that’s the type of memory that lets us remember multiple things at once, which is necessary for tasks like arithmetic and comprehension. Similarly, it increases children’s focus and concentration, since learning an instrument requires patience and attention to detail. Researchers have also shown that learning to play music increases communication between the right and left sides of the brain, which can enhance children’s creativity. Finally, learning an instrument can improve motor skills and coordination - some instruments demand communication between hands and feet, while others require different actions from each hand. In short, music lessons have amazing cognitive benefits that will help kids succeed in many different aspects of life.

Educational Benefits

Learning to read and play music helps to hone and develop crucial language and mathematical skills. For instance, learning about musical notes, rhythms, beats, and time signatures helps kids with counting, dividing, fractions, and recognizing patterns. Music lessons have also been shown to increase kids’ phonological skills - that is, they learn to read faster and have more expanded vocabularies than kids who haven’t taken music lessons. Learning to play an instrument can even introduce kids to the basics of physical science - the vibrations made by the strings of a violin, guitar, or piano or the different noises made by different sizes of drums can spark conversations about the physics behind music. Finally, learning about different instruments and styles of music helps expose kids to different cultures and traditions, fostering creativity and open-mindedness about countries and communities outside our own. 

Academic Benefits

There is a wealth of evidence showing that students involved in music perform better academically than students who do not. Kids who learn to play an instrument have been demonstrated to have higher grades, higher test scores, and even higher IQs! Therefore, it’s not surprising that schools with strong music programs have higher graduation rates than schools without them - and private music lessons are a great way to supplement school programs as well!

Personal Benefits

Finally, there are several very important social and emotional benefits to learning music. Music lessons helps to boost kids’ self-esteem by demonstrating how constructive feedback can be used to create positive change. As music students see themselves improving in their lessons, their confidence will grow, and they’ll feel capable of taking on further challenges. As kids grow older and take on increased responsibilities at school and at home, music can be a great source of stress relief, helping them feel calmer and more positive. Finally, learning music helps kids develop social skills and make friends. This is especially true for kids in group classes, like a school band, choir, or orchestra, but even kids who aren’t involved in groups like this benefit socially from learning music. Talking about a favorite song or musical artist creates bonds and friendships between individuals, and a shared interest in music can form connections that will last a lifetime.

With so many positive effects, getting your children involved in music should be an easy decision! Call us today to get started!

5 Tips To Prepare For Your First Music Lesson

So now that you've found a music teacher, it's time to get ready for the first lesson. Like all new activities and situations, it's common for people to have some anxiety. Young children might be very shy, while older kids and teenagers might be worried about being judged or not doing well in the first class. This is all very common and with a little preparation, you can help ease those first lesson jitters.

Here are 5 tips on how to prepare for your first private music lesson.

1. Get An Instrument

The very first step is to buy or rent an instrument. If you already have an instrument, make sure that it is in good working condition. Getting the piano tuned, fixing your clarinet's leaky pads or putting new strings on your guitar can go a long way towards making your first lesson a fun and exciting experience.

Check with your teacher or local music store to see if there are any accessories that you will need in addition to your instrument, i.e. string instruments need rosin, woodwinds need reeds etc. For books and sheet music, you can wait until after your have your first lesson before buying anything. Often music teachers prefer to meet new students and assess their learning style before deciding on which method or books would work best.

2. Bring A List Of Questions

Teachers love to answer questions! Make a list of any questions ahead of time so you won't forget them in all the excitement of the first class.

3. Befriend Your Music Teacher

Try to talk to your music teacher for a few minutes on the phone or better yet, in person if they are available before the first lesson. This is especially important for helping younger children feel comfortable at the first class.

4. Make A List Of Goals

Talk to your child about any songs or styles of music that they might want to learn. It could be anything from the Star Wars theme to an ACDC riff. Even if they won't be able to play it right away, having a written goal will help your instructor tailor their curriculum to your child's interests. 

5. Have Fun!!!

Most importantly, remember that music lessons are supposed to be FUN! So, try not to put unrealistic expectations on your children. No one becomes a virtuoso overnight. Embrace the process and enjoy the journey!

3 Tips to Encourage Musical Interest in Your Youngster

Does your child show an interest in music? Maybe they love singing along with the radio, or drumming rhythms on the table. Cultivating this love of music will benefit them for a lifetime. Studies have shown that learning to play an instrument can improve memory and concentration, teach patience and discipline, offer a creative and emotional outlet, and even contribute to future academic success. 

When it comes to encouraging musical interest in kids, there are three main steps you should take.

1. Make Music Important

The first step to cultivating your child’s interest in music is to integrate it into their daily lives. Try playing music in the house or listening to the radio in the car, and expose your kids to different genres, from classical to classic rock! Another great way to spark their interest is to take them to live music events. Many local organizations host family-friendly music events at parks, libraries, and more. Or, try attending a performance at your local high school, such as a musical or a band concert. Seeing what older students have achieved may inspire your children to do the same! Finally, consider taking your kids to a night at the symphony or ballet as a special treat. 

Remember that your own enthusiasm for music is key here - if your child sees that music is important to you, it will be important to them as well. You can even take lessons alongside your child as a way to bond over music, and to encourage them when they get frustrated. 

1. Get an Instrument (or Several)

If you want your child to learn to play an instrument, having one accessible to them at home will help to cultivate an interest. Don’t feel as if you need to invest in a quality instrument just yet - for toddlers and young children, musical toys are more than sufficient to spark musical curiosity. Give your children access to a variety of drums, keyboards, recorders, or even small guitars, and allow them to play, explore, and experiment with a variety of sounds. 

Older children will benefit from exploring a variety of instruments too. We recommend starting with piano lessons or children’s choir so that they learn to read music and have a strong musical background by the time they are old enough to join their school’s band or orchestra. Most school programs encourage students to try out different instruments. You can also try visiting your local music shop with your child. Ask the employees there to demonstrate different instruments to see which ones excite your child the most!

1. Think Long Term

One of the best parts about a musical education is that it never truly stops - there is always more to learn and explore! With that in mind, you’ll need to think about long term musical goals for your children as well as short term. This means investing in music classes and private lessons, both to further their technique and to expose them to instructors and peers who share their passion for music!

It’s also important to sustain an ongoing interest in music, which means encouraging your kids when they get frustrated and not letting them give up when things get challenging. At the same time, however, being too forceful can be detrimental. Just because your child is learning music doesn’t mean they can’t explore other interests simultaneously, such as sports and other extra curriculars. Even if your child ends up focusing on a different activity as they grow, they will always be grateful for their exposure to music! 

If you’re trying to encourage your child’s love of music, consider these three steps, and call the Powell Academy of Music. Our instructors are here to help show your child how amazing music can be, as well as all the benefits that come with learning to play an instrument. Call us today!

Why Should I Care About Private Music Lessons for My Child?

Every parent wants to put their child in the best position to succeed. In music, this means including private music lessons into your child’s practice and learning. There are many differences between group and 1-on-1 classes that can help expand abilities quickly and lead to better instrument mastery. Here are the top three reasons private music lessons are beneficial for your child learning to play an instrument.

Private

That’s right, the privacy of a 1-on-1 lesson is extremely beneficial to your child’s learning. The instructor is without distraction and can watch and listen to your child carefully, picking up on every trouble spot. This allows the instructor to fine tune the lessons to improve your child’s playing.

The privacy of 1-on-1 instruction also allows the instructor more time to delve into music theory and help improve additional abilities like sight reading. This can lead to opportunities for composing music—a skill not often taught in group classes.

Pacing
In group lessons, kids perform drills or repeat sections of music to practice a particular fingering or breathing technique. Since the class can only move on once each student has learned the skill, your quick learner may progress more slowly through the curriculum. On the other hand, instructors may need to move forward with the class before your child has truly mastered the technique or skill.

Private lessons allow for a personalized pacing to learning. More lesson time may be spent on practicing a certain trouble section and the parts your child plays well may only be reviewed a couple of times. Your child is in full control of the pacing of their lessons and the advancement of their overall progress toward mastery.

Practice
Not only does your child control the pacing of the lessons, they also control the curriculum. Practice time during lessons is spent on the exact things your child needs to work on. They will also receive a personal lesson plan for at-home practice that further enhances their skills and works directly on their trouble spots.

Private lessons also motivate students to practice at home more. Why? Because there is no hiding their lack of progress in the group. Being the only person at a private lesson puts them “on the spot.” Instructors act as accountability partners, encouraging your child to improve through regular practice.
Private lessons have many benefits, but it is true that some kids thrive better in group settings. Children who are extremely social or who thrive on the friendly competition between peers are well suited for group lessons.

However, to truly advance musical ability, private lessons are invaluable. If your child is just starting out or perhaps has been in a group setting for a while now, it’s time for private music lessons. Call the Powell Music Academy today to schedule your child’s first lesson or use our handy online registration for booking. See you soon!

Kids & Piano - 3 Tips for Overcoming Obstacles

Whenever kids are learning a new activity or skill, it’s common for them to hit some roadblocks along the way. Learning to play the piano comes along with its own set of challenges, but they can be overcome! Below are our suggestions for how to help your children leap over three common obstacles in piano lessons, and to improve their skills as students and musicians.

Mindset
Attitude is an incredibly important part of learning, and it’s no exaggeration to say that a positive mindset can be the difference between failure and success. It’s not uncommon for piano students to lose confidence from time to time, whether due to a specific instance, like a poor performance, or to ongoing frustrations from lack of improvement. Kids might also compare their piano playing to that of more advanced students, which can lead to further discouragement.

If you notice your young pianist is developing a negative or unhealthy mindset, you can help to build up their confidence and determination. It might help to remind them of all the progress they’ve already made since they first began private lessons. For instance, if a performance didn’t go as well as they had hoped, remind them that there was a time that they couldn’t imagine being skilled enough to even perform in the first place! You can also remind them that even the most advanced pianists were once at their level, and that they had to overcome similar challenges (one example is Vladimir Horowitz, who overcame years of intense stage fright to become one of the greatest concert pianists in history!). Remind them that setbacks are only temporary, and soon your piano student will have their confidence back!

Practice
Practice is perhaps the biggest obstacle kids face in learning to play piano. Kids today are busy, and it can be hard to find the time to practice piano while in the middle of homework and other activities. More often, though, there is simply a lack of motivation to practice. Without adequate focus or clear goals, practice time is frustrating and unproductive. However, it is impossible to become a skilled pianist without practice, so it’s important to have a plan to overcome these obstacles!

Practicing piano effectively is all about creating a routine. Schedule a regular time for your kids to practice piano - you might even try writing it on the family calendar! Set a specific amount of time for each practice session - knowing they only need to practice for twenty minutes can help kids feel less pressure, and can help them learn to manage the time effectively.

Motivation is also key in practicing piano. Try creating a system of rewards - for instance, ten extra minutes of video games for each half hour of focused piano practice. You can also set longer-term goals, such as a trip to the movies for mastering a song or performing in a recital.

Method
The best way for a child to learn piano is through lessons, however, not every teaching method works for every student. If your student feels stuck, talk to their music teacher about switching up the structure of their lessons, whether that means using a different curriculum or letting the student choose music that interests them, like pop or Broadway songs. Motivational programs, such as the Powell Academy of Music’s Level Up program, can be very helpful in inspiring students to progress in their lessons by presenting them with clear goals and rewards. Finally, some piano students simply will work better with one instructor than another. Most piano instructors understand this and can help refer you to another teacher if need be!

Every new piano player, especially kids, will experience some or all of these obstacles during
their musical journey, and overcoming them will take decisive effort and patience, from students and parents. Remember that support and encouragement through lessons and practice can go a long way toward getting your young piano player to love their instrument!

March/April 2017 Newsletter

STUDENT

SPOTLIGHT!

This month’s spotlight is on long time Academy student Randy Findell. Randy is an amazing young musician and producer. We are so proud of all of the work and time he puts in and apparently we are not the only ones impressed with his music. Randy got his 1st record deal and one of his songs was released on a compilation album of up and coming artist titled Rising Tides 005!!!

Randy on developing the style of his music:
“The way i got into this kind of stuff was listening to a lot of electronic music and going down the rabbit hole of experimentation. Getting inspiration from many small artists making similar music on the internet. I’ve been producing for 4 years, and in that time what i have wanted to make has changed drastically, although i’ve always wanted to sing because i think that without vocals, my music would have virtually appeal to an outside listener, and I like singing. I really like making stuff that uses foley, sounds recorded from the real world, because it activates memory of experiences with those objects, and it sounds more human, i like using smooth synthesizers with slow vibrato to make them sound intentionally awed, and I have a lot of other little tendencies that make up my style. And that’s basically it, it’s just an incredibly fun thing for me because it helps me build an identity and make people feel things that come from my mind.”

From all of us here at the Academy, congratulations and we can’t wait to see what’s next!

Student of the Month – Amanda Jones

Q: What instruments do you play?

A: Voice and Guitar

Q: How long have you taken lessons?

A: About 2 years.

Q: Who are your favorite musical artists?
A: My fellow choir members.

Q: What is your favorite food?

A: Pasta

Q: What is the coolest thing you’ve learned in your lessons in the past three months?

A: Breath support

 Q: Have you had any recent performances?

A: Yes, March 11th, 2017

A parents role in the beginning:

The most critical time in any music student’s journey is at the very beginning. This is when students need the most support and encouragement from parents. Often at this stage the music is simple enough that parents are able to quickly understand and help their children with their assignments, even if they have never had any musical experience themselves. It is a great idea to sit with your child while they practice at the beginning to ensure that they are doing their assignments correctly.  This extra support in the beginning will help develop good practice habits and will pay dividends later on. After several weeks students can begin to practice more on their own and won’t require as much help from parents.

Young Children:

For very young children, ages 3 and 4 years old, parental involvement is a must. Parents need to be involved with just about every practice session at this age. There are always exceptions, but as of writing this, I have never met a 4 year old that could effectively practice on their own.

School Aged Children:

Elementary aged children typically need a parent to sit in at the beginning and help them learn how to practice effectively. Over time parents can back off and let them practice more on their own. Students always do better when parents are more involved, but sometimes it just isn’t realistic for parents to always help their children practice. I teach music for a living and even I don’t always have time to sit in with my kids to help them practice. Sometimes dinner has to be made, work comes up, or the playoffs are on tv. I equate it to doing school homework. 1st graders most likely need a lot of help and follow up but over time they get it down. A 5th grader might only need sporadic help.

Teenagers:

Teenagers are more than capable of practicing on their own. Often by the time students are in their teenage years, the music they are learning is far too advanced for parents to be able to help them much anyway. (unless the parent has had some musical training) The best thing parents can do for their teenagers is show an interest in what they are learning. Encouragement and support go a long way (even if they don’t outwardly appreciate it).  Having a weekly concert or even just dropping in on their practicing once in a while, are great ways to show them that you are interested in what they are learning.